Every individual has a unique W1 body, unique W2 body, and unique interaction with the fountain of events. You can never judge anyone because you can never know how it feels being inside another's bubble. Different W1 and W2 bodies give rise to different streams of realities that are alien to you.
You can only be compared to other versions of yourself. No two individuals can be compared with one another.
Nevertheless, for most people, comparison is an automatical, unconscious, and inevitable process. Such comparison works like a double-edged sword. When you are the winner in the comparison, it boosts your self-image, but as soon as you become the loser in this comparison, comparison destroys your self-image.
Nezman has control over his or her own L1 and L3 lenses and their interpretations. For Nezman, defeats are temporary and stepping stones towards much bigger success. Nothing in outside world can affect Nezman’s self-image. Nezman knows and defines himself or herself despite all external events and comparisons.
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In absolute terms, there is no way to compare people because we have different circumstances. Even our own self is incomparable with our former self, because we are in different time and space, and the state of mind and body is always changing. In a relative sense, people can be compared because there are some similar commonalities between us, such as physical and psychological. On this basis, compare some differences in our own values . The present self and the past self are also comparable, because apart from the changes, there are similar places, such as our personal preferences, social identity,etc.
For some people, judging others can make them satisfied with themselves and bring them happiness.Can this be viewed as meaningful?:)
It’s so sad that every day there are so many people choosing suicide when they face malicious words from others. So why can people be so much influenced by others’s opinions?Perhaps it is because each of us is looking for a sense of identity and belonging throughout our lives. This is why we want to find a partner. Even if only one person can understand me, recognize me, and let me feel the real existence of myself, I feel that it is practical, not confused and fearless. Throughout our lives, we are seeking meaning and seeking a sense of confirmation and presence. The reason why we are so eager for meaning, security, confirmation, and sense of existence may be precisely because our environment and ourselves are unsafe, unconfirmed, and meaningless. This may be why some people are keen to evaluate others: they gain a weak sense of control, security, presence, and sense of meaning from the evaluation of other people's things. And if one day, some people can’t feel meaningful and existing of themselves, they may choose death.
There’s a poem written by somebody. Maybe explain something common in most of humans.”Everyone is very lonely.
In our lifetime,
It’s not rare to meet love and meet sex.
Rare is to meet the understanding.
If someone,
At the right time, in the right place,
met the only suitable person.
Not because their morality is better.
Just because they are more fortunate.”
Similarity is just an illusion. Even identical twins (who have similar W1 bodies) begin to differ inside the uterus as they become exposed to different extents of hormones even long before birth. Variety in people's W1 and W2 bodies (and inner experiences) is enormous.
There are some degrees of similarities in behavior because the ruling class want to homogenized the society for easier control.
Beautiful!
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